Posts Tagged ‘Parent’
When lying to our children
We parents spend teaching moral standards for our children. Usually, one that never fails is one that teaches you not to lie. Although we sometimes do. While it is not correct truthfully there are situations in which there is no recourse to so great honesty.
When they would not understand
There are things happening in the world that are beyond the understanding of a child. While not all can protect and it’s good to know the truth, some experts say it is better to measure it to not generate any negative impact on the child. Find ways to keep away from hazards that may affect them because the shock will be terrible.
When it’s your problem, not theirs
This alludes to the famous phrase “are adult things.” We, the parents, we go through daily problems we sometimes lose sleep. While it can sometimes be difficult to deal with some situations in solitude, must appeal to another kind of comfort or company. Young children should be protected by their parents, not loaded.
When you get caught in intimacy
It sometimes happens that parents forget lock the door and the little enters the room without talking, facing situations that would not have to see. In that moment of truth is not the best solution, with an innocent “we were tickling” you can save the wrong drink. Although, after you pass the time would be quite positive that it may please thee to have a sex education talk with your children.
As parents we have the task of encouraging them in any dream or goal to be proposed. Perhaps, our son was not born with the gift of sport and wants to play football. Banning is not the way, least of honesty. These issues should be treated with broad sensitivity, in consultation with its surroundings which is the best way to address it. Help him to find that in what stand out.
When you talk about your personal history
What is the sense that your child knows about youth wasted or out of control that you had? Without doubt, now that it does, you know that this is not your desire for him. When you touch the subject of your past, avoid what happened to have details. Stick simply to give advice or life lessons that can be used for the near future.
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How to avoid the frustration of the children?
Parents always want their children to be happy, live a full life and get what they want, but sometimes not, what has been learned since childhood. Contrary to what some parents think, to give everything to their children when they are small because of great life will be very hard, child psychology specialists recommend that children get used to win things and that nothing is so easy to obtained, so that you learn to tolerate frustration. For you to raise your children by helping them in their future life.
Why avoid the frustration?
The problems of children are often small compared to those of adults, but they are situations that can teach and much to serve his adult life. Children must learn to develop techniques to deal with frustration and move forward, understanding that not everything goes as you want, because if not we risk having an unhappy teenager with everything you have that does not try to accomplish anything, because you expect everything to be easy. If your child is learning to handle frustration will have much less risk of stress and learn to better manage their emotions and improve their academic performance.
Lead by example
The children learn from their parents how they should behave, so it is important you take the example. Not all children are equal and react well to the different situations, some may be much more violent and explode at the slightest situation, and they are the most should work to control their emotions and be able to fit into society properly.
You can teach your child to observe the emotions in others, such as when watching TV, discussing the feelings that a person is and how it should react to this situation. You should also teach him not to react violently, without allowing aggressive behavior , punishing removing something you like, and saying that you understand their anger, but should not react that way.
Talk to your children
It is very important that you explain to your children can feel the emotions that we all go through them, which is normal to feel angry or angry sometimes, but we must learn to control and avoid hurting others and ourselves. The anger is damaging our health, so we must learn to stop it at first, thinking about something else when we feel that something bothers us. Talk to your children to tell you what they feel, because trust is essential to work together.
Be clear about your rules
As a parent you will need to be clear about what behaviors are acceptable and which not, what should be discussed beforehand with your partner, not to give wrong signals to children. You must teach your children to do a tantrum, for example, is not acceptable, but must unload their feelings, for example, exercising, and must learn to control them. If your child is very angry, leave it alone until you pass and then talk calmly with him.
The role of parents as educators is critical in terms of values ??and management of the emotions that must have future adults, which can not be taught elsewhere than at home. Therefore it is important to correctly direct resources to children and help them thrive. Learning to control their emotions better and can live in a good way to relate with others.
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How to identify emotional problems in children?
Children also suffer address problems or situations that do not know face, generating emotional diseases are becoming more frequent and affecting their school performance and their way of life. As parents, it is important to understand the emotional distress they may suffer our children to detect early and help them overcome them correctly.
How can emotional disorders?
Emotional disorders can lead to serious behavioral disturbances in children, which can affect school performance, their relationship with their parents, their peers, their environment, including your mind to wander and play. The most common emotional problems in children are anxiety, depression, eating disorders, to learn and behave, which strongly affect the quality of their lives.
Causes of emotional distress
Many situations can not be nice for children, including his parents’ constant arguments, the authoritarianism of their elders, problems at school, separation from their parents, violence, abandonment and so on. But not only external factors can influence the inheritance and also has much to say, children are more prone to emotional disturbances than others.
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Positive parenting
We always give you tools so you can be every day a better father. Today we will work to give you some tips on positive parenting .
Our daily lifestyle does not always lend to us to take the life of a good way. But always with a face or anxious is not the best way to raise children happy. So, I invite you to read these tips we have for you.
Get rid of the myths
At times, many parents feel pressured by the parameters imposed by society. Begins to invade from prejudice, guilt and feelings of inadequacy. You just have to abandon the idea of wanting to be a perfect parent. Mistakes we all do, thanks to our human condition, and from them we learn to overcome obstacles.
Do not try to feel love forever
Whenever you fly over the idea of unconditional love for our children. Although, once we walk together the path of parenting, we realize that there are times when love can go through difficult terrain. It does not mean ceasing to exist, it will never happen. You just have to ask yourself the right question. It is not always feel love, but to prove it. Support and encourage small is the best way to be optimistic.
Do not get obsessed with success
All people are different, so your children should not be an exception. You should not be obsessed with your achievements, each individual to fulfill his dream time. They need to feel they are a positive figure that will encourage them to achieve all that is proposed. You must leave room for mistake and learn from their mistakes. It is not good to repress.
Respect their own purposes
Parents often make many unconscious actions, one of which is to channel their experiences frustrated in the lives of their children. Life does not always lead us in the ways we would have liked, but that should not be an excuse to try to realize our dreams in them. Remember that the goals and dreams are individual, specific to each. Trying to force something only make you feel bitter and insecure. Encourage them!
We must not buy happiness
Often, especially when there are family crises tend to think that children will not be affected if the fill material things. They just need to feel loved and understood. Children are more pure than adults do not measure things by money, but soak up small and simple gestures. Our job as parents is to be positive to their attitudes, make them understand that happiness is on the other.
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