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Tips on dealing with children
The children are adorable but our nerves are tested on many occasions. Naturally, they are starting to live and still not have the tools that let you know how to behave in every situation. But that is precisely why we are here for parents to guide them in the process of growth.
Here are some basic guidelines that will help us keep on track.
Be consistent
If discipline is very important we talk about being consistent. Parents who do not comply with the rules and agreements that have come with their children, they risk their children to be irresponsible as well. Empty threats undermine the authority. Just make sure you warnings when you come to the end.
Eliminate temptations
Young children are naturally curious. So out of the reach of your child all objects that could draw your attention and tempt you to grab, such as cables, telephones, televisions, buttons, drugs, etc.. You are preventing choking accidents, shock, poisoning, among others.
Distract small
When your little boy go straight into a dangerous object calmly tell him “No”, you move from the area and distracted with another activity. It is important to avoid hitting the child. At this age there is low probability of establishing a relationship between behavior and punishment physical. Only you would show that it is right to hit others when one is angry. The blows are never a solution.
Practice timeouts
Waiting times are a more stringent level to handle young children. If your child has beaten him table food lying or shouted, the best solution is to say that the behavior is wrong and why (in language accessible to the child), then take it to a waiting area previously conceived (a chair in the kitchen , the first step of a ladder) for a minute or two until he calms down.
Sometimes it can be difficult to manage behavior of young children, but calmly and following these tips your child will learn what behaviors are acceptable, which will help prevent future problems.
When lying to our children
We parents spend teaching moral standards for our children. Usually, one that never fails is one that teaches you not to lie. Although we sometimes do. While it is not correct truthfully there are situations in which there is no recourse to so great honesty.
When they would not understand
There are things happening in the world that are beyond the understanding of a child. While not all can protect and it’s good to know the truth, some experts say it is better to measure it to not generate any negative impact on the child. Find ways to keep away from hazards that may affect them because the shock will be terrible.
When it’s your problem, not theirs
This alludes to the famous phrase “are adult things.” We, the parents, we go through daily problems we sometimes lose sleep. While it can sometimes be difficult to deal with some situations in solitude, must appeal to another kind of comfort or company. Young children should be protected by their parents, not loaded.
When you get caught in intimacy
It sometimes happens that parents forget lock the door and the little enters the room without talking, facing situations that would not have to see. In that moment of truth is not the best solution, with an innocent “we were tickling” you can save the wrong drink. Although, after you pass the time would be quite positive that it may please thee to have a sex education talk with your children.
As parents we have the task of encouraging them in any dream or goal to be proposed. Perhaps, our son was not born with the gift of sport and wants to play football. Banning is not the way, least of honesty. These issues should be treated with broad sensitivity, in consultation with its surroundings which is the best way to address it. Help him to find that in what stand out.
When you talk about your personal history
What is the sense that your child knows about youth wasted or out of control that you had? Without doubt, now that it does, you know that this is not your desire for him. When you touch the subject of your past, avoid what happened to have details. Stick simply to give advice or life lessons that can be used for the near future.
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How to develop study habits?
Studying is a complex habit that goes beyond the scope of tasks and meet the expectations of the teacher. This means the possibility of interacting with information, further, to generalize and acquire more of a mental ability, valuable for all the different areas of the child’s life.
Tips for teaching good study habits:
Do not force your children to be at a desk for hours to study the texts. This activity is not a punishment, is an encounter with the knowledge and the more comfortable the better. If you want to sit on the floor or under a tree, Peloponnese.
Make sure your child has enough energy to study. Prepare some fruit juice or a few blocks. Also provide for it in water. This will keep you active. Just do not ever provide it with any caffeine.
It is not good for children to study in a fixed area, it should be diverse locations where their brains can interact with dissimilar elements in subtle ways. It’s all part of the process itself and enriches it. Otherwise, is subject to certain environments skills and mental development is impeded.
Do not let the small study only one subject. It has been shown to insert issues, moving forward and backward, strengthens and solidifies knowledge. When more than one topic, there is a time between them that allows the brain to assimilate the information gradually, but everything is integrated more fully.
Remember to study and perform the tasks of the school are not the same thing. The study provides mental skills by targeting the brain into meaningful information. Your children will appreciate forever if you help them to acquire in the early stages of their schooling.
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How to create a learning environment?
Education and learning your child are everywhere, not just in school but also at home and living in every situation. The moments you spend with your child will grasp to learn things, creating a fun learning environment, so you need very little love, patience and enthusiasm.
In Represented teach you how you can create an environment for your child to learn with a good teacher: yourself.
Worry about the game, not the success
While it is true that children follow the same basic learning pattern is also true that there are many nuances. Some children learn best by listening and viewing information, while others learn by doing and practicing. No matter the method, which is really important is that your child is encouraged to play with objects safely and explore the world around him.
Read aloud
Reading aloud to your child helps you imagine what you hear and significantly improve your vocabulary. In other words, the vocabulary that the child is two years is proportional to the number of words he has heard talk before that time. Children would not be able to respond verbally when they are young, but process what they hear.
Reduces background noise
You may be very interested in a TV show or do not like silence, but for your child will be better than you spend the time to it and decrease the background noise. The noise makes it difficult for children to distinguish between the sounds you need to know and those without.
Acerbically to music
If you can inscribers to music lessons or take advantage of times when they are bored to touch a piano or an instrument. Children who study a musical instrument develop better verbal ability and greater manual dexterity. Other research also shows that music improves memory in general.
Develop the art
When children get bored do not know, holidays are difficult times for that matter, because “I’m bored” is common and we can not entertain at every turn.
One of the best ways to allow the creative flow is to let your child create, either by writing on a piece of paper or playing with paints and crayons. Besides allowing your imagination to expand, this will help develop fine motor skills (holding a pencil or crayon, clutching a bottle of glue). Ideally, art practice regularly, without you put too many rules, but can create freely (of course within the paper and not on the wall).
There are many things you can do to encourage your child, but the important thing is that they are moments of fun for them, not for doing your own despair smart. Over time, children develop their capabilities, along with what you teach him, but little things can help, educate and keep you entertained.
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How can we protect our daughters?
It has always been and will be ill-intentioned people, even closer than we think, so that women, from small, we are taught not to talk to strangers, be careful when walking in the street, etc.. Parents are the ones who should teach their daughters how to react and what to do to prevent abuse or other problems, although one must not fall into the paranoia either, but that should be prevented as much as possible.
In Represented we tell you what you can do to protect your daughters for people with bad intentions.
Teaching appropriate behaviors
To achieve protection of daughters should have a trusting relationship with them in the first place, where any problem be able to attend with their parents and tell any abnormal behavior have noticed, by acquaintances and strangers. Good relationship with parents teaches daughters what normal behavior and what is not in a relationship, which will allow them to detect any problem early and timely comment.
Knowing where and with whom are the children
Also have confidence and good relationship with the children you know where and who they are, since they are often doing work for school or out with friends, etc.. The point is you do not lie, and can tell you what I want to do and with whom, since many times not to get angry, do not get counted and they will come in equal and there do not recognize dangers.
Do what is safe, not popular
Parents often make decisions that daughters do not like, but as adults they are right. For example, going to a party until dawn can be a topic of heated discussion, but in this case it is best to let your daughter go to the party, but that are going to find a suitable time.
Learn Internet
Internet is here to stay. It is a tool that provides many benefits but can also become a big risk by putting our personal data to the hand of anyone who wants to use. To protect your daughters from Internet predators, pornography and the strangers who can get in touch with them, know how the computer and internet. The more you know better, because you can prevent your daughters have access to malicious websites, limiting their access and use the filters available for that purpose.
Know your daughter
It is important to know what music you like, what is on television programming, who are their friends, etc.., Since many times young people can fall into their environment to do what he says, unable to determine what is best for them . You can talk about what they see, not trying to restrict what they see or be of those parents too strict and far from their children, but to do with your child from time to time and discuss programming with it, so as to establish confidence, but also go guide.
Being the scapegoat
Sometimes you have to look like the bad guy so that your daughters are doing well, but you must be willing to do to fulfill your role as a father. Many times, friends push for your daughters go to a party, or do something that will not leave and they will be angry with you and claim, but you’re the one who watches over them.
Being a parent is not easy, especially with the dangers out there. Children often do not realize the dangerous situations that can live until they are adults, so they often do not understand the decisions of their parents, but certainly when they are well worth the effort of them and follow their example.
Should we spank?
Gone are the hammer and place the spanking! Many parents are asking – legitimately elsewhere – the question of education. “Peter, you’re really too strict with Lucas! ” ” Isabella, if you could support me a little, I’m tired of having the wrong role. “Too soft, too hard … The authority is the safeguard of education but happening it mandatory for spanking? Is it the guarantee of a return to calm? Is it really necessary?
“Raising” is not “draw”
“Can I practice Cosleeping? “” Should I spank him if he made a mistake? . Many questions about children’s education. With regard to spanking, difficult to describe its history through the ages but still it is that corporal punishment is almost cultural in France and abroad. She follows us from the inception of the first messages. Suppose then that she existed! “He who loves his son, often gave the whip in order to find joy in him” (dixit Ecclesiastes, book of the Hebrew Bible). Even the New Testament emphasizes the need for corporal punishment.
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Teach civility to kids
Politeness, please!
The notions of politeness, etiquette and respect they are completely outdated? Far from it. It is more than ever time to act and restore civility to its letters of nobility.
Education: the key
Explaining that has gradually abandoned the rules of politeness? According to experts consulted, the bursting of the traditional family in the 1960s has largely contributed to this phenomenon.
“It is within the family that young record their first impressions of life and they receive most of their education,” says Masson. She adds: “People are moving in a polished atmosphere, social and professional more amiable and more enjoyable than others.”
“The authoritarian discipline of the traditional family has evolved to become one of sloppiness, to give birth to the child king. Therefore, generation after generation, the rules of politeness are lost, “says Bouchard.
Mr. Metz did not start provided the stone for parents: “They can not teach manners to their children if they do not themselves have learned what are the rules. Hence the importance of starting to teach the concepts of politeness from the kindergarten. ”
Ms. Masson says that some parents today are realizing that to get their children the results, they are required to apply the process tedious and repetitive education in etiquette, which requires a persistence and patience remarkable: “What do they say?” oath they each time the child receives something or make a request. “You said thank you or please the lady?” Is a phrase that has become meaningless and should be repeated as a refrain used. “It is these parents that I say they see their investment paid back when they hear a neighbor, a schoolteacher or an elderly aunt tell them how their child is high because it is rare to see children well educated adults become coarse. ”