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When lying to our children
We parents spend teaching moral standards for our children. Usually, one that never fails is one that teaches you not to lie. Although we sometimes do. While it is not correct truthfully there are situations in which there is no recourse to so great honesty.
When they would not understand
There are things happening in the world that are beyond the understanding of a child. While not all can protect and it’s good to know the truth, some experts say it is better to measure it to not generate any negative impact on the child. Find ways to keep away from hazards that may affect them because the shock will be terrible.
When it’s your problem, not theirs
This alludes to the famous phrase “are adult things.” We, the parents, we go through daily problems we sometimes lose sleep. While it can sometimes be difficult to deal with some situations in solitude, must appeal to another kind of comfort or company. Young children should be protected by their parents, not loaded.
When you get caught in intimacy
It sometimes happens that parents forget lock the door and the little enters the room without talking, facing situations that would not have to see. In that moment of truth is not the best solution, with an innocent “we were tickling” you can save the wrong drink. Although, after you pass the time would be quite positive that it may please thee to have a sex education talk with your children.
As parents we have the task of encouraging them in any dream or goal to be proposed. Perhaps, our son was not born with the gift of sport and wants to play football. Banning is not the way, least of honesty. These issues should be treated with broad sensitivity, in consultation with its surroundings which is the best way to address it. Help him to find that in what stand out.
When you talk about your personal history
What is the sense that your child knows about youth wasted or out of control that you had? Without doubt, now that it does, you know that this is not your desire for him. When you touch the subject of your past, avoid what happened to have details. Stick simply to give advice or life lessons that can be used for the near future.
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How to develop good relationships with children?
Every parent wants to have a wonderful relationship with your child. However, not always possible to establish this line so important that it allows adults to move towards the child. Some basic steps can help to realize this desire. Here are some of them:
Try to guess what your child is experiencing at this very moment, try to put in place and know what you think and why.
Express it to your child better understand your intentions to establish a good interaction and ask for help in this task. This facilitates communication and emotions. In addition, also be inclined to become more flexible in specific situations.
Keep your mind open to any response or reaction may come. Even if this does not show yourself comfort you sad or angry. Keep that information and then write him so you can reflect and understand what is happening with your child.
Whenever you make any progress in communication and understanding of your child’s problems, do not feel you’ve won the battle. Put into practice what you learn very slowly. Although you have moved, this does not mean they do next time: human relationships are very delicate.
Before implementing any idea, think many times your conclusions. Do that yourself when you are going to react to any interactive situation.
Do not assume that the kisses and hugs are the solution to problems. While displays of affection are essential in relationships, what your child needs you at any given time depends on the nature of matter traversed.
It is important to transmit your knowledge to your children, but how do you do if the kids hate their parents just show them every step of the window of the experience? Just do not elevate with a tone of superiority that makes them feel in a lower position. Treat them fairly and with respect. Share your wisdom with them, as you share a bit of water with a companion, without self or pressure.
Never assume anything before asking the child. Ask open questions. Waiting your answer and only then draw conclusions about what is happening or think your child. Be friendly and welcoming to develop the confidence and esteem.
And finally, remember to comment very soft, non-hurtful or authoritarian. Some facial expression may be better accepted, even with some humorous load, if you need an opinion. Avoid criticism and mostly negative reviews.
Have you read all these tips?
Now check your relationship with your children and if there is a margin that is missing restore walk with patience and dedication. There is no doubt that if you persevere to make relationships at home are better every day.
