Psychology
When lying to our children
We parents spend teaching moral standards for our children. Usually, one that never fails is one that teaches you not to lie. Although we sometimes do. While it is not correct truthfully there are situations in which there is no recourse to so great honesty.
When they would not understand
There are things happening in the world that are beyond the understanding of a child. While not all can protect and it’s good to know the truth, some experts say it is better to measure it to not generate any negative impact on the child. Find ways to keep away from hazards that may affect them because the shock will be terrible.
When it’s your problem, not theirs
This alludes to the famous phrase “are adult things.” We, the parents, we go through daily problems we sometimes lose sleep. While it can sometimes be difficult to deal with some situations in solitude, must appeal to another kind of comfort or company. Young children should be protected by their parents, not loaded.
When you get caught in intimacy
It sometimes happens that parents forget lock the door and the little enters the room without talking, facing situations that would not have to see. In that moment of truth is not the best solution, with an innocent “we were tickling” you can save the wrong drink. Although, after you pass the time would be quite positive that it may please thee to have a sex education talk with your children.
As parents we have the task of encouraging them in any dream or goal to be proposed. Perhaps, our son was not born with the gift of sport and wants to play football. Banning is not the way, least of honesty. These issues should be treated with broad sensitivity, in consultation with its surroundings which is the best way to address it. Help him to find that in what stand out.
When you talk about your personal history
What is the sense that your child knows about youth wasted or out of control that you had? Without doubt, now that it does, you know that this is not your desire for him. When you touch the subject of your past, avoid what happened to have details. Stick simply to give advice or life lessons that can be used for the near future.
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How to avoid the frustration of the children?
Parents always want their children to be happy, live a full life and get what they want, but sometimes not, what has been learned since childhood. Contrary to what some parents think, to give everything to their children when they are small because of great life will be very hard, child psychology specialists recommend that children get used to win things and that nothing is so easy to obtained, so that you learn to tolerate frustration. For you to raise your children by helping them in their future life.
Why avoid the frustration?
The problems of children are often small compared to those of adults, but they are situations that can teach and much to serve his adult life. Children must learn to develop techniques to deal with frustration and move forward, understanding that not everything goes as you want, because if not we risk having an unhappy teenager with everything you have that does not try to accomplish anything, because you expect everything to be easy. If your child is learning to handle frustration will have much less risk of stress and learn to better manage their emotions and improve their academic performance.
Lead by example
The children learn from their parents how they should behave, so it is important you take the example. Not all children are equal and react well to the different situations, some may be much more violent and explode at the slightest situation, and they are the most should work to control their emotions and be able to fit into society properly.
You can teach your child to observe the emotions in others, such as when watching TV, discussing the feelings that a person is and how it should react to this situation. You should also teach him not to react violently, without allowing aggressive behavior , punishing removing something you like, and saying that you understand their anger, but should not react that way.
Talk to your children
It is very important that you explain to your children can feel the emotions that we all go through them, which is normal to feel angry or angry sometimes, but we must learn to control and avoid hurting others and ourselves. The anger is damaging our health, so we must learn to stop it at first, thinking about something else when we feel that something bothers us. Talk to your children to tell you what they feel, because trust is essential to work together.
Be clear about your rules
As a parent you will need to be clear about what behaviors are acceptable and which not, what should be discussed beforehand with your partner, not to give wrong signals to children. You must teach your children to do a tantrum, for example, is not acceptable, but must unload their feelings, for example, exercising, and must learn to control them. If your child is very angry, leave it alone until you pass and then talk calmly with him.
The role of parents as educators is critical in terms of values ??and management of the emotions that must have future adults, which can not be taught elsewhere than at home. Therefore it is important to correctly direct resources to children and help them thrive. Learning to control their emotions better and can live in a good way to relate with others.
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Recycling activities for children
Children should be taught from an early age the importance of protecting the environment, and nothing better to do with recycling activities for children. You should keep in mind that are fun and educational at the same time. Program, at least one day a week and enjoys performing various learning activities that encourage recycling.
Mosaic
The idea is to make a drawing on a sheet and fill it with different materials that are left at home. Magazines can be leaves, rocks, grains of different colors, etc.. To paste I recommend using glue. So your children will learn to do school projects with household materials.
Bird feeder
Going to use an empty milk carton and covered with clean tape for strength. Cut a hole in one side of the box (big enough for small birds to enter) and the back opens up a hole so you can hang up. Paint it to give a personal touch.
Magnets
With some coat hangers, magnets and canvas, you can make some pretty magnets placed on any surface. They should only stick the magnet to the side of the hook and on the other hand, decorate your home with fabric scraps, buttons, etc..
With these simple activities you can teach your children the importance of using recycled materials and help to improve their creativity.
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Difficult to learn when you are stressed
A child’s nervous, tense or agitated will always struggle to get his homework (if only to start). Same trouble listening in class, understand or remember.
Children may well be stressed, and stress disrupts initially concentration, i.e. the attention and the ability to set learning
From the outset, we can limit distractions: grouping around itself the necessary equipment, and moving to a quiet place, which – without being totally silent – must be “separate”.
When duties, the greatest difficulties arise with children who do not up and move in the unconscious hope to scroll. Their behavior dilutes their cognitive function, and inevitably risk of annoying relatives already saturated by their own day. The excitement of children creates an electric atmosphere, which blew the parent at the slightest difficulty. You will never make a child still nervous, and his bad posture or repetitive movements are increasing your impatience. The time you spend telling him to “keep right” or “stop fidgeting” is a waste of time and unnecessarily lengthens the duties, as it degrades the quality of the exchange. Read the rest of this entry »
It takes little to be happy
True smaller gymnast baby is testing its flexibility during the first month. He participated in the discovery of his body by manipulating their tootsies with amazing agility. He takes pleasure in his hands mingle and play with the vibrations of his voice. You will lead the evening’s fun in the gallery without noticing! As a curiosity, this unexpected acrobat spends hours touching, fingering and chew tirelessly all parts of his body.
A spectacle of light and sound
“Now when I go to a nursery is no longer a kid’s room is a toy store” mocked attaching Fernand Raynaud. Between the classic toy, the multitude of available mobile music and toys, this little man simply spoiled for choice! Between 4 and 5 months, it is necessary that the toys light up, lining the ceiling constellations sparkling jingle. Your baby’s eyes devoured his environment. The boost is needed at a very young age.
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Should we spank?
Gone are the hammer and place the spanking! Many parents are asking – legitimately elsewhere – the question of education. “Peter, you’re really too strict with Lucas! ” ” Isabella, if you could support me a little, I’m tired of having the wrong role. “Too soft, too hard … The authority is the safeguard of education but happening it mandatory for spanking? Is it the guarantee of a return to calm? Is it really necessary?
“Raising” is not “draw”
“Can I practice Cosleeping? “” Should I spank him if he made a mistake? . Many questions about children’s education. With regard to spanking, difficult to describe its history through the ages but still it is that corporal punishment is almost cultural in France and abroad. She follows us from the inception of the first messages. Suppose then that she existed! “He who loves his son, often gave the whip in order to find joy in him” (dixit Ecclesiastes, book of the Hebrew Bible). Even the New Testament emphasizes the need for corporal punishment.
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